Going through it

As I sat down beside him with my plate from the buffet, I tuned in to the conversation he was having with the group. “I was the guy who tested the new planes,” he shared, referring to his time in the military during WWII. “A lot of times they still needed work.” He went on […]

A space for grace

I have woken up the last two days with a heavy heart for a mom who is going through a lot right now. And although I don’t know her personally, empathy and compassion bring me to a place of intense prayer for her. She is walking out the consequences of her past choices being brought […]

The weight of it all

I feel compelled to write today because I want to share some practical ways of navigating through these difficult days. The world seems so heavy right now and believe me, I understand the weight of heavy. This scripture is my mantra right now: “I have said these things to you, that in me you may […]

The road to graduation

The significance of today’s graduation ceremony was in no way lost on me. Seven years ago, as I started counseling, there were a couple key dates in my mind as I wondered what my future mental state would be. Luke’s high school graduation was one of them. I have contemplated many times over what the […]

Coffee with a friend

I had coffee with an old friend this week. I pulled over on the side of the road of my journey to pause, reflect and celebrate progress with someone very special from my past. Our journey has not been an easy one but sitting across the table from her while we recapped was something incredibly […]

Saluting the past

I am at a place in my story where I have found peace, contentment and acceptance. Those are three really big words that I had to wrestle down and wrangle in—I had to fight for them. They are now a part of my home, my life, and my relationships. Toward the latter part of last […]

Covered in mud

This past summer a friend and I went to “movie night at the park” where they showed a fun flick on a big blow-up screen. It’s so much fun to see everyone with their lawn chairs with blankets, coolers and snacks. There’s a wave of something nostalgic that fills the air. It was pretty dark […]

Nice or kind?

I want to share the idea of being nice vs. being kind. For the last two weeks I have been chewing on these two words and experimenting with them in my little world. Here are my thoughts on the matter: Being nice is an effort to use good manners and be cordial with someone. It […]

A lovely little stable

It was June 2018 and the boys and I got our own rows on the flight to Ethiopia, where our plane stopped in Togo to refuel. After the cleaning crew finished we sat…and sat. Something was clearly wrong because this process normally takes less than an hour. They asked us to deplane and once we […]

Seventy percent great

I was visiting with an old friend of mine the other day (who recently moved away and came back into town for a few days), and we were going through the bullet points—new location, house, kids, activities, work, husband, etc. One thing I really appreciate about her is her honest assessment on things. For example, […]